Sunday, May 14, 2017

2017 May: A new Christian is born in China


13 May 2017
Yesterday was quite a special day for Rodney and I as we witnessed something very special for us.  If you do not want to read or see some photos of a Chinese Christian baptism,  I suggest you skip this post.
 We have often referred to our Chinese family...and this family seems to continue to grow.  At first it was our driver and his extended family, the. It grew to include Daisy, and her mother and father who we met at a flea market. Now, it grows again to include a young man named Tom.  We first met Tom several years ago when we lived in the Intercontinental Hotel.  He worked as a server in the executive lounge.  He was always very shy, but spoke English, so we got to know a bit about him.  His mother is a nutritionist and his father died when he was a boy.  His job as a server was a promotion because he started working as a chopper in the kitchen.  We moved from the hotel, and he changed jobs and we somewhat lost touch, but we always remained in contact through WeChat.  Over the years, we exchanged notes and even some gifts at the important Chinese holidays. Fast forward to 2017 and Tom was more and more present and in fact started to work at the hotel where we live.  Tom calls us his parents, and in many ways we are.  His mother works in a city in the south of China, and Tom lives here in Shenyang.  He is not married and has a heart as good as gold.  I'm quite sure he would do anything in the world for us.

One day, he asked Rodney about Christianity and Rod took the opportunity to share our beliefs.  One thing lead to another and to make a long story short, it culminated in Tom being baptized yesterday.  We went to his baptism yesterday morning and it was a very special day for us.

The only Christian government sanctioned church here is the Catholic Church, where all priests must be approved by the government.  Protestant churches exist,  it they are all private and typically meet in people's homes or in shopping malls or other places that do not call attention to themselves.  Foreigners are typically not invited for fear of drawing attention, and we respect that.  We told Tom, however that we would like to like to attend his baptism, and he was over joyed.

The church group does baptisms about twice a year in a fitness center large jacuzzi.  So we were able to find it and witness a very special event.  I share a few photos below.  It's not a traditional "Church" building...but I can assure you that from our perspective God was indeed present and all that were there were blessed.




Tom in the middle ready making the profession of faith

First Communion.
After the baptism, Rodney giving Tom his words of confidence and pride

Rod signing as a witness, as did Sarah and 2 Chinese friends.

Tom's Christian family

Tom with his fellow new Christians

Tom's Christian family, the lady in the middle is Crystal...Sarah's Chinese teacher



Rod and Tom after a few tears were shed.  We gave Tom a cross necklace as a gift to remember the occasion.

All of the newly baptised Christians were given a bouquet of fresh cut peonies.  Tom gave his to me.  I treasure it.
So, here you have a glimpse into another facet of our life here in Shenyang.  When we agreed to stay longer than the original 5 year plan, we took many factors into account, including Rod's health care.  We gave up the ability to see our family and live in the US, to stay here.  Why?  Sometimes we ask ourselves that question.  Just last month, we missed our granddaughter's first communion.  It was not the same as Tom's to be sure, but it was another sacrifice for saying "yes" to stay in China.  We never know where it all leads, but one thing for certain,  we continue to strive to do God's Will and do the next right thing...looking back on our day yesterday, Tom was part of that greater plan of staying here in China.

How much longer will we be staying here?  Honestly we don't know...we take it one day at a time.  In life, we find what we are looking for...in the US, France, Romania, now China.

We thank God for each and every one of you and your continued support as we continue to live and work and do our small part to help improve our little corner of the world here in Shenyang, China.

Rod and Sarah Miller

Sunday, May 7, 2017

2017 May, 34th Anniversary Greetings from SuZhou

Greeting all,
Its the 7th of May as I type this..hard to believe that 1/2 of 2017 has almost gone by.  I think my perception of time is changing the older I get!  And speaking of older..back on the 23rd of April, Rod and I celebrated our 34th wedding anniversary!  34 years ago, we said our vows in a small country home of a good friend of ours in just out side of Paducah, KY in the western part of the Bluegrass state.  I was to graduate from Murray State University in May of 1983 and we were getting ready to go on a cruise for our honeymoon. My parents made the 6 hour drive  from our family home in Germantown, KY up in Northeastern, KY to witness child # 5 officially get off the payroll.  My father wasn't exactly sure how to treat Rod...Rod had been married before...and he and dad had to have that "man to man" talk...to this day, I don't know the contents of that talk, but it must have been effective..we're still together!  Tomorrow is my mother's birthday..she was born on the 8th of May, 1928 and died on the 14th of December 2003.  She was a very special lady and will be in my heart until I too pass from this earth. 
Back onto happier topics!  I had a business trip to Shanghai on the weekend of our anniversary, so we took advantage and Rod went with me and I planned a long weekend of Suzhou for us.  I will share some pictures of Suzhou and the surrounding areas.  Suzhou is an old city known for it's beautiful gardens...and for this gardener's soul, it was a needed boost after the long cold winter of Shenyang. 
In a Taoist temple...the first time I have ever seen this hand gesture on any figure here in China...much less in a temple!  Probably not the best shot to start this blog entry with...couldn't resist!


Rod and Sarah enjoying a day in the Humble Administrator's Garden


A room with a view...such a nice water feature in the garden! (As long as someone else does the maintenance!)

Love the vase built into the wall around the garden!


The canals and pathways in the gardens were just so peaceful...except that there were a bazillion other people wanting to enjoy the garden that day too!

Taking a break in the pavillion in the garden

Just one of the gazibos in the garden

Scenes like this are what I really enjoyed about Suzhou...flowers...and lots of them!  ahh!

Beautiful scenes...like a fairy tale!
azaleas in The Humble Administrator's garden

Bonsai Azaleas!

Beautiful Pavillion in the Humble Administrator's garden

A peaceful walk in the park at the Humble Administrator's garden in SuZhou
After a lovely day in the park, we enjoyed our evening of rest and then the next day we went to Tiger Hill Tower park.  As the name implies, there is a big tower on top of a hill...the tower is over 900 years old and still standing, albeit with a 12 degree lean.  It was also a very nice garden/park.
Bridge into the Tiger Hill park in Suzhou

A boat cruise around the park is always a nice way to see things (and relax!)

Row, Row Row the boat

The Tiger Hill Tower with 12 degree lean!

Rod and Sarah enjoying Suzhou

Can't pass up an opportunity to take pictures of red white and blue poppies!

One of the meditation trails in the Tiger Hill park


Our chariot awaits for the boat cruise around the park

Rod and Sarah cruising Tiger Hill Park in Suzhou for their 34th anniversary!

The official name of the park..it's another Unesco site.
In the afternoon, Rod took a break at the hotel and Sarah went for a little adventure solo to a Water town not far from Suzhou called Tongli.  It's an old water town (meaning people live in houses typically on stilts on the water).  I'm pretty sure this is preserved for tourists..but I like it all the same.
Here are some pictures of Tongli.
The city gate into Tongli

Everything happens on and in the canal shores

Another boat ride for Sarah in Tongli


Lunch buckets on the back side of a restaurant being cleaned out...

Down by the canalside in Tongli

Tree lined canals make Tongli particularly pretty


Restaurants on the canal in Tongli

Just your average water town in the suburbs of Suzhou

Life on the rivers..outside of the tourist areas in Tongli
After the day of touring around, Rod and I took a nice stroll along the lake in Suzhou and enjoyed our last evening there.  The lakefront was typical of most Chinese places at night...lit up!
Lakeside in SuZhou in the evening

So, that's about it for our anniversary installment on this entry.  We are grateful to have this time together and we aim to cherish all of our time together.  Life is precious and we know we have no guarantees of tomorrow...so I ask God to bless us and bless you.

Rod and Sarah
Living large in China